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"Since there are thousands of fairy tales, one may safely guess that there are probably equal numbers where the courage and determination of females rescue males, and vice versa."
—Bruno Bettelheim, The Uses of Enchantment
We are only as strong as our weakest link. This applies to relationships too. We’ve seen a new trend in fairytales. It used to be common to see the weak damsel in distress imprisoned in a tower, poisoned by an apple, immobilized by sleep, mistreated by a stepmother, and so on. Then the all-powerful, ever conquering hero would sweep in and save the failing damsel. This is a distressing and disturbing message to send to our young women who become groomed to be rescued and to our young men who are conditioned to be the rescuer. These fairytales may be exclusively responsible for creating our co-dependent relationships we all seem to be in recovery from today! In today’s fairytales, it is socially acceptable and politically correct to see a strong heroine who equally matches her hero, and displays strength and heroic deeds to overcome the challenges. What if both partners worked together to their best potential...what could you accomplish as a couple? How interesting is the story when only one partner is the hero? To reach your relationship potential it is important for both partners to be evolving and growing so the relationship can mature and have great adventures. Not to mention, it makes for a better story when both partners get to be the dynamic heroes!
TIPS FOR LIVING AS EQUALS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP:
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